How Pimps Keep Bitches In Check

Bitches will always – ALWAYS – get out of line. There’s not a single bitch in the world who you give them a set of rules and they will do everything on that list to perfection. If a perfect bitch slightly fucks up, you don’t need to get into her face about it because she been a good bitch and don’t deserve that but if you let it go unnoticed, SHE will notice it. You give a bitch an inch and she will take a foot. If you let it go unnoticed once, next time she will do it again and push a little further. That’s how a pimp’s empire can crumble. They always say Rome wasn’t built in a day, but it also didn’t crumble in a day. The decay of rome started long before the empire fell. If you start letting shit slide cause you’re mentally lazy or not paying attention, the cracks in your foundation will eventually bring your entire house down.

Pimp With Your Mind Not Your Fists

Everyone always thinks a pimp keeps a bitch in check using a backhand. There are times when you’re going to need to smack a bitch or choke a bitch if she gets out of line. Some bitches need to be physically dominated in order to submit to her pimp, and if so – so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do. But you can not be a pimp by simply getting angry every time and smacking your bitch. You have to get inside of her head. A bitch that will break her back making you money is a bitch that is in love with you. A bitch that does not want to dissapoint you. A bitch that wants to make her daddy happy. If you just go around smackin her up all of the time, you become the problem instead of the rock. Bitches need to fear disappointing you but more importantly they need to desire to make you happy.

Pimps Are Hard On Bitches

You can be caring and sensitive, you can be cheerful and playful, you can be whatever you want. Most importantly you can be YOURSELF. If you’re a dude who is always laughing and joking, don’t all of the sudden start being some straight up gangster who never cracks a smile. Don’t try and be someone else. Being a pimp is about finding your own style, finding what works for you and what works for you is being yourself. However you always need to be hard on your bitches. You can never for a moment let a bitch think that you’re soft and can be taken advantage of. Bitches are manipulative and they will try and find your weaknesses, if they think that they can point out your weaknesses, they will. Bitches are always looking for a hand up over their pimp. You need to make sure that they don’t have one, or even think that they have one. Being hard on your bitches can be any thing from always increasing your expectatins and never letting them get comfortable to knowing what they really like and want and removing it from them for set periods of time. There’s a lot of different ways you can be hard on your bitches, but the most important thing is that you never think a bitch has earned enough for you, or that she’s helped you in some way that she deserves to be treated differently then any other bitch and never ever think that a bitch ain’t a bitch.

Pimps, Money & Bitches

Money is a very important part of the relationship between a bitch and her pimp. I’m not saying this is a “I’m about my money” type of thing, where you’re just trying to say you’re motivated by money and that’s why it’s important to you. Money & Bitches when you’re pimping is much more important, it’s THE defining dynamic between you and your bitches. Normally when you’re in love and have a girlfriend or a wife, the defining dynamic between the two of you is love. You always fall back onto do we love each other or not? A pimp will never define love as the defining factor between a bitch and himself. A pimp will always let a bitch know that the most important thing between them is that she needs to bring him money and more money. If she continues to do that, everything will be all good. If she stops doing that, if she brings less money, if she says she doesn’t want to bring money, if she gets between her pimp and his money, she knows she is going to get a whopping, she knows her pimp is going to abandon her, she knows she will be left at the drop of a dime if she fucks with her pimps money. If a bitch really understands that the most important thing to her pimp is his money, she will never even think about fucking with his money. She will break her back to suck that one extra dick so she has an extra $50 for her pimp when he comes to get his money. If you make the dynamic of a pimp and a bitch love, rather than money, then that bitch will take advantage of you all day long.

Pimps Don’t Chase Bitches, Pimps Replace Bitches

The most important thing and sometimes the hardest thing for a pimp to do is to drop a bitch. You have to be completely cold hearted, you can not cut a bitch slack when she doesn’t deserve it. You know what a bitch has to do to get dropped, and when that situation happens don’t start making excuses for her on why you shouldn’t drop her. You know she needs to be dropped and it doesn’t matter what the situation is, you drop her. To be specific when I say drop a bitch I don’t mean punch her and knock her out. I simply mean cut all ties with her, let her know you’re no longer her pimp and she is on her own. It’s not every day this will happen and to be honest, it happens seldom. But sometimes you might find yourself in a situation where you feel sorry for a bitch and even if she should be gone, through her tears and protest you are tempted to keep her around. This is always going to be tough, but you have to be able to be cold hearted and drop a bitch when it makes sense to do so. You may be a cold hearted dude and think I’m a punk for saying it’s hard to drop a bitch, but if you have a bitch that you have lived with for 5 years, she’s been your bottom bitch, she’s made you a lot of money and one day you gotta drop her, it’s not easy. If it is easy for you, then you’re a cold dude.

Keeping your bitches in check is something that even if you read everything I have to say about it and you talked to several other pimps, you’ll still run into problems. You need experience to learn how to keep a stable of hoes in check and sometimes you need to make mistakes in order to learn from them. Being a pimp is not about being perfect, it’s about making your bitches think that you’re perfect. If you make mistakes it’s all good, you just need to correct them very quick and never make them again. If you think you can do that, which you probably can, you’re going to be good.

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  1. eswere 12/10/21

    ummmm..sometimes people like to work alone ( meaning just thier pimp and them)

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/10/23

      by people im assuming you mean bitches, cause there isn’t a pimp in the world that prefers to make less money. Bitches don’t run the show, pimps do. If you’re a bitch and you got a pimp and don’t want your pimp to have other hoes, you have jealousy issues that are keeping your pimp back. Keep him far away from me and this website.

      • BreannaFlrz 13/03/10

        As always you are right about there isn’t a PIMP in this world THAT DOESN’T WANT TO MAKE MORE MONEY. BUT I personally know of a FEW and have Heard of a Few that had AND KEPT 1, one B (either through out thier career or one B at a time).
        His/their reasoning Because SHE was a GOOD MONEY MAKER, SHE THREATENED TO LEAVE HIM IF HE TOOK ON ANY OTHER HOE(S) ETC.
        I knew Hoes WHO was a Pimps only one because They caused alot of problems with the other Ho’s and or went around Boasting about how her man won’t accept/take on any more Ho’s because SHE IS HO ENOUGH FOR HIM Other reasons they accepted such malarchy her Threatening to leave is She claimed she could make him ALL THE MONEY HE’D NEED OR WANT.
        THEREFORE THESE PARTICULAR P’S ACCEPTED AND CONTINUED ON WITH JUST THAT ONE HO.
        REASONING (my take on it) she was white and or HE WAS IN LOVE AND LUST WITH HER. I am not trying to claim or say that she could or couldn’t have made ALL THE $$$$$$$ HE COULD WANT OR NEED. I am simply going by the NEVER ENOUGH MONEY CREED. Prime example that P on American Pimp that had the one ho and only ho.
        In hopes of not being out of pocket ONLY because I am NO longer a Ho but it sounds like a Boyfriend and Girlfriend thing to me
        YEAH WE’VE GOT TO GIVE IT TO HIM FORE HE PIMPED THE HECK OUT OF HER PUNANNY BUT IT SURE SEEMS LIKE SHE WAS RUNNING THE SHOW.

        • BreannaFlrz 13/03/10

          How is it that a Ho, a HO OF ALL PEOPLE can even form her lips to tell her people who, let alone how many HOES HE CAN HAVE.
          How dare she/they the ones that do.
          How does a P, a PIMP ALLOW a BITCH THAT IS BENEATH HIM AND SHOULD BE BEHIND HIM FORM HER LIPS TO TELL HIM WHO, LET ALONE HOW MANY HOES HE CAN’T OR CAN HAVE. I get chills even thinking about me or my wife in-laws even forming our lips to say those words.
          Our teeth would have probably (NOPE AIN’T NO PROBABLY ABOUT IT and I know that fore a fact) been knocked to the back of our throats.
          The ones that I am speaking on were OLD SCHOOL, BUT IT STILL GOES ON EVEN NOW.So old school has Nothing to do with it. It maybe far and between but it goes on still.
          I APOLOGIZE FOR LOOSING MY COOL.
          PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR GETTING OUT OF POCKET BUT
          When I think and picture things such as this it erks the dickens out of me. I become outraged.
          HOW CAN, HOW DOES A PIMP ALLOW A HO (BE SHE WHITE, BLACK OR INDIFFERENT) BE SO BOLD, BE SO ARROGANT, SO… I CAN’T FIND THE WORDS I WANT TO USE.
          Ok you can get a word in edge wise now

  2. trappinsolo12 12/10/22

    With everything i have inside me, I was blessed to find this website for certain! Can not thank you enough! You mention on here that you have to release a BITCH after a certain age, because she couldn’t keep up WITH THE YOUNGER fresher crew right? Wtf? You just don’t know, how close i was to diggin in right then and there. Wait a damn minute, she paid your lazy ass for how many years? And then you dismissed her, cause she was 5 years older….Wow, loyalty only applies to the pimp i see:) However my reasoning,for response to any of this shit, is how close i became to signing on with one of you scum bag nigga’s…These chick’s aren’t on their best bullshit, flat out….My instinct told me to research what pimpin really consisted of, and damn im glad i found your sight:)

    Lies, deciet, useing another human being, for your come up… ALL SHIT A WEAK MAN DOES..REAL MEN, TREAT THERE WOMEN LIKE QUEENS:) You know who’s gonna put yall out of buiesness for GOOD ..Independent escorts like myself, that did there research…Thanks again …Pimpin ain’t easy you neva lied there… It’s probobly not easy to sleep some nights either is it? !00% Independent Woman..That takes 100% of her $$$$ home..lmao

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/10/23

      You’re turning this into a male vs female issue. Plenty of female pimps out there. Whether they getting theirs from using their pussy or their mind, they;re still playing the game same as every other pimp. If your job is taking dick for a living, don’t look down your nose at me. You’re the hoe, you’re not even trying to pimp, you’re perfectly happy being a public toilet. I’d rather be a scum bag than a hoe.

      If you’re interested in the game for real, you should re-read this website with the perspective that you’re a pimp and apply it to your life. Why be a slave when you can be a master?

      • dwn4u 13/03/13

        I have a question I started out when I was 30 what I look like I’m 19wit a great body but I started out Independent always wondered why girls had a pimp so I got me 1 he flipped out on me so I left him didn’t get another 1 till 2 years later and I found a real P my first did not teach me any rules my daddy now was surprised to know that I was this age and didn’t know anything about the pimp game so I messed up a couple times and he was so hard about his s*** he has got in my head but he wouldn’t give me more of him go I will cross country with him for about 6months a he always down me even when I do good but the more down me the more I want to stay he left me in AZ and told me to drive to him why he got on the plane I went to Saint Louis with the other b****** that’s the second time he’s done that my daddy is 10 years younger than me but he’s the only people I have ever been really down for when he did that i chose up another p out here but I f***** up and I want my daddy back he said that he didn’t even want me but he all in my system how do I get my daddy back

  3. Valentinasia 12/11/30

    you never wanted to marry or have children with your main bitch? loyalty, money, respect ….. how could you drop your main for getting older and making less money? isnt that the whole point of ride or die? ride it out until both of you are out the game

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/12/24

      Nah, never even loved her let alone wanting to have kids with her or get married. I’m assuming you’re a female, a pimp says ride or die to his bitches but no pimp I know actually means it. An old bitch doesn’t make money and a pimp is about his money, there’s no real loyalty in the pimp game.

  4. Dani13 13/01/02

    so wait, pimps don’t love their girls?
    thats cruel, i thought they did, thats why i wanted to meet one.

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/01/13

      Truth hurts bitch

  5. YungP 13/01/30

    Whats up pimp Im a yung up and coming pimp and I just want to ask you if Im kind of tight with $$$ how could you still elevate yourself to impress bitches? Is it the whip first or the crib to keep the bitches in? Im still investing in this because I have nothing to show as of yet… Im getting my jewelry game tight as of now

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/02/01

      This is probably going to sound funny but if you don’t have nothing, then just lower your standards and impress bitches that have less than you. There’s always a bitch that’s poorer than you. If you can’t impress her with your flash then impress her with your knowledge.

      If she’s a really dumb bitch then just make up a story on why you have no flash. “I was pimping next town over, my bottom bitch fucked up the game so I had to cut loose. I knew I’d be alright but I was worried about her so I left everything. I got so mad I took the damn rolex off my wrist and left threw it at her. I left the car keys, the condo everything”.

      The only problem with making up stories like that is you have to have really tight game. Like for example, telling a bitch you left everything is a good look because she’ll think that your a good dude that looked out for someone in need. But on the other hand she might play u for a dummy and act up on purpose thinking ur going to do the same for her. It’s a bit of a minefield but if ur game is tight you can figure it out.

      If you have money and just want to know what to buy first, a car or a house… I really don’t know and there’s no real answer. Read the page on pimp swagger and you can come to your own conclusion.

  6. Dwnho 13/02/01

    Glad I stumbled upon this website. Much respect to you, pimpin’. Sounds like you’re game tight. & this is coming from a hoe’s perspective. At this current moment I am independent. I was down 4 yrs w/ my TO folks until I found out he was on some square shit while I was cross country gettin’ it.

    My question is this: When I say I was loyal, I mean that ! & like you stated before . There is no happy ending to this game . But, am I wrong for not wanting to choose up with another P after all that I went through? I mean you & I both know how much the game has changed , and how rare it is to come across a “Real One.”

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/02/01

      Your role of being a pimp or a hoe is not defined by what’s between your legs, it’s defined by what’s between your ears.

      If you’re pimping yourself and getting along fine there’s nothing wrong with that. A hoe needs to chose her pimp because she needs him. If you don’t need a pimp, then there’s no reason to give yourself to one. If you know deep down you’re a bitch and you need a pimp, then you need to put yourself out there. A bitch who can get it on her own but knows her role is the best kind of bitch. There’d be no shortage of legit, strong pimps that would take you on their team.

  7. youngp 13/02/02

    How did you start out, what kept you from going back to just being a player

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/02/22

      Read the pimp stories section. i explain how I turned out my first bitch.

  8. YungP 13/02/02

    Ok cool pimp i appreciate the game you randown on me will keep in touch pimp peace

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/02/22

      You’re welcome, good luck pimp.

  9. E-Cubed 13/02/25

    I have two things I’m struggling with, with my current relationship. First off, I am of the pimping mindset, but I choose to live with girls and be in an open relationship as my lifestyle, I am not a pimp, I am just a happy man. That said, I am well read and practiced on mackin’ and pimpin’ and have earned some dollars connecting girls I know with guys I know.

    My two conundrums which I am not finding any common sense answers in any books or online are:
    1) I enforce a “peace in the bedroom” rule. Which means basically, no negativity in this holiest of places. You take it outside. Ok, so my girl knows this rule, and 9 times out of 10 respects it, and goes out to the hammock to cool off and come back when she has a smile on her face. But 1 time out of 10, she’s resist and turns into a mule saying it’s her bedroom too, and she gets into a really negative bent. I give her at least 10 warnings, nicely, calmly. I will take her hand gently and again ask her to go outside and cool off. When all that doesn’t work, I go open the door, and I come back and drag her ass out. Only thing is, it’s never a clean job. She tries not to implicate herself by hurting me, but she cuts me up resisting. She’ll bump into things, while she’s maniacal. Ok, so my question is this. How do get your bitch out when she’s resisting? I’m scared to continue to use force because I really don’t need to be explaining all the bruises and tears about her, to the cops. Girls know how to play that angle brilliantly.

    2) Second thing going on that I don’t know how to deal with and keep her in check about is, she tries to use reverse logic/reasoning to try and get me to look unfair or reveal a double standard. She’ll say, “why do you get to have sex with other girls, but I can’t go and have sex with any guy I want?” (understand, we are not a pimp/bitch relationship, this is a normal relationship, with some open qualities). But the thing is, she isn’t interested in sleeping with other guys. She only uses that, to try and close my standards down. It’s some kind of reverse logic way to try and get me to not do what I’m doing so she’ll get what she wants, which is JUST me (monogamously). And I’m sure if she has the opportunity she will fuck a guy, just out of spite or revenge, or just trying to prove a point. Obviously, that’s not why I fuck other girls (by the way, I am totally honest about my fun sex life), I fuck for fun, not to prove a point. It’s not a thesis paper. It’s sex.

    Alright, looking forward to your help, because if I can square away these two things, I can really have my whole game tight and I can be ready to expand into pimping properly which is something I’m getting into.

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/02/25

      Good questions.

      (1) This situation has gone too far. If you’re at the point of having to physically drag her out and you’re worried about explaining yourself to police etc then the situation is already out of control. I explain on this site not to give you bitches an inch. This is a perfect example. She seemingly respects your rule 90% of the time, but 10% should NOT be down played. That is ridiculously high. If you’re in love with someone and you have a relationship with them, you need to accept them with their faults. If you’re a pimp or want to be a pimp, you don’t accept their faults. Kick that bitch out and only allow her to come back when she’s crawling on the floor and willing to kiss the bottom of your feet. If it happens again after that, break it off and cut her loose. You can’t run a stable when your bottom bitch is acting wild and disrespecting your most sacred rules.

      You need to realize that she is venting and knowingly breaking your rules. She might be doing it because she’s seeking your attention, she might like the drama or she might be legitimately pissed off about something that she just doesn’t care. If she’s seeking your attention, you can fix that. If she likes the drama, then it’s very hard to correct that once you’ve allowed it to go on for so long. If she’s pissed off about something, you need to give her another way to vent her frustrations. Here’s my solutions to each possibility: (a) if she likes your angry attention start spanking her any time she acts up. If she doesn’t act up enough to deserve a regular spanking, let her know you’re going to spank her daily just to keep her in line. Every morning, or every evening or whatever it is setup a routine where she knows she’s getting your full attention. Give her a good hard 10 spankings and talk to her between each one. You’re going to be good right? You’re going to respect the rules of the house right? etc. Say stuff like that between each spank. (b) If she is genuinely frustrated about something, you need to give her another way to vent. People lash out when they feel like they have no other avenue, so be more understanding and give her an avenue to vent about her frustrations in an environment you find acceptable. For example, tell her in order to be a better daddy for her, you want continuous feedback. Every Sunday at 7pm, the two of you are going to go lay down on the hammock together and discuss what ever is on her mind. That’s her time to let out her frustrations. Make this like a ritual, give it a name.. “daddy/baby time”. Treat that time with respect, don’t blow it off. Don’t be lazy about it. (c) If she just likes the drama and you want to be a pimp, kick her ass out and start over. A player might not be willing to commit to those wholesale changes, but a pimp would. You can’t build a stable on such a shaky foundation.

      (2) I would attack the reverse logic two fold, the first way is by giving them solid reasoning on why it is the way it is. In this specific example there’s a couple different ways you can do that. Tell her you’re the daddy and she’s your baby girl. The dynamic works because a daddy can have more than one baby, but a baby can’t have more than one daddies. If she wants to be on your team, under your arm, then she needs to understand that other dudes are just distractions to what the two of you have. Other dudes will become dominant and try to pry themselves between you and them. You being you, she doesn’t need to worry about that happening when you have other bitches, because they aren’t going to be on your level, they’ll be on her level. Other baby girls, not a mom. The other way you can attack it is by giving them logic like “a key that opens any lock is a master key, a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock.” I don’t use these kind of attack when she’s arguing with you, I use it when you’re having calm conversations and she’s listening to you with an open mind. Explain to her this kind of stuff using sound logic when you have her ear and it will sink into her deep psyche and she’ll accept the truth in it on a subconscious level. When she’s arguing with you out of emotion, deep down she’ll have doubt on whether or not she’s right because her mind will remember that in a clear thought she agreed with you on the principle of it.

      The second way I deal with this is by having a list of rules. Not just stuff you can talk circles around whenever talking to her, but a specific list of rules that she has agreed to follow. On that list of rules you have one that’s worded something like “I want my daddy to be my happy and I know that part of what makes him happy is being with other bitches. This will not bother me and if it ever does I promise to keep an open mind and try to be understanding rather than try and convince my daddy to stop doing something that makes him happy.” If it’s a list of rules that she has agreed to, usually in a moment after you’ve explained the whole key/lock analogy and explained how a daddy can have more than one baby without it demeaning the baby, then when she’s arguing with you, you have the full right to shut it down quickly. “Daddy why am I not good enough? Why do you need other bitches?” Your answer just needs to be “You’re trying to manipulate me right now, and you’re disrespecting rule #4. What is Rule #4?” and you will right away turn the conversation into something more manageable, away from her reverse logic and back into the framework that it makes sense.

      One last thing, always remind them of weak emotions. Weak emotions are stuff like anger, frustration, jealousy, etc. If it’s jealousy, tell her that she’s better than that. Not to give in to her weak emotions, raise above them. etc. If you allow a weak emotion like jealousy to be reason enough for her to try and change your rules or your arrangement with her, then she will be able to argue with all kinds of retarded premises. If you can right away dismiss the foundation of her concern based on it beign a weak emotion, it’s an easy way to shut down the conversation in a way that challenges her to get over it, mentally.

  10. dwn4u 13/03/13

    In the past 4 months I’ve made him over 8000 And a 5000 dollar car but in the past 6 months we’ve been through a lot bumping his s*** only because I was the turnout but I want my daddy back so tell me how do I get my daddy back

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/03/15

      Pay him. Go make him money and go back to him when you have racks to hand him. If he still doesn’t want you, go back and make more and pay him again when you have more. The way to any pimp’s heart is MONEY!

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