How Pimps Train Bitches

Once you’ve met a bitch, you got that bitch to love you, it’s now time to train that bitch. How a pimp trains a bitch is always going to be different and all I can really do here is explain to you how I trained my bitches. You can take some things from it, learn some things from it and you can disagree with the rest. All I can say is I’ve successfully trained all of my bitches using these techniques and that I know how to be a pimp. What I am trying to do is sort write a guideline that you can follow and use as a basis for your own style. Take a therapist for example, they all go to school and learn basics but it doesn’t mean that if you see two different therapists they’re both going to say the same thing and deliver it in the same way. They’re both going to have their own unique opinions and thoughts and more importantly they’ll have their own style. Pimping is a lot like this where you can follow basic principles and learn from others, but at the end of the day every situation is unique and a lot of what you say or do depends on your personality.

There are a couple main things you need to get a bitch to do when you’re training her. 1) She needs to respect your word. There is no bitching back and forth or arguing about problems or issues. She can voice her opinion and let you know what she’s thinking but once a decision has been made you, the conversation is over and she has to live with it. The best way I found to go about reinforcing rule #1 is by explaining to them why it is necessary. You need to explain to them that you are the pimp and they are the hoe, and that is in plain English. You can explain to your bitches that this relationship between the two of you has goals and in order to achieve those goals you need structure and discipline. If no one is in control and every one has equal say, the goals will never be achieved. Since you’re the pimp and the one with experience and knowledge and you’re the one who is putting everything together, your word is final. Going back to analogies, tell your bitch this is like a basketball team. You got bitches working for you and you need all of them to come together and work together so that collectively you can all win the championship. If you got bitches on your team that don’t respect the coach (pimp), the coach either needs to discipline those players (bitches) or kick them off the team. If the bitch you’re talking to doesn’t want to be on the team for what ever reason, she needs to say so now. Otherwise that bitch needs to accept her role and have faith in her pimp that her pimp will lead the team in the right direction.

If you got a bitch to understand and accept that your word is final, you’re on your way to having a well trained bitch. 2) You need to get that bitch to do shit she don’t want to do. This can really be anything, but it’s better if it’s sexual. If that bitch don’t like other women, get her to eat some pussy in front of you. The reason for this is you need to break her and show her your new control over her. The best thing you can do is have some drinks with her, get her drunk and then get her to do some shit she said she’d never do. If you got a bitch that’s a total freak, make her show you how freaky she is. Take a piss on her and make her swallow it all. Nothing is too far or too nasty, you can do what ever it is you want to do these bitches and not only will they do it, they will learn to love doing it for you. If a bitch refuses to do something for you, like she don’t want to eat another bitches pussy you need to take her aside so that the two of you can talk in private. Smack that bitch and let her know you’re disappointed in her. I used to actually give my bitches spankings, put them over your knee, spank them till they’re crying. Let them know you’re disappointed in them, they embarrassed you and themselves and that the conversation isn’t over. Once you’re done humiliating her like that she will eventually come around to the idea and say she’ll try it or do it, you just got to keep at it and eventually they will break. Keep forcing them to do shit they don’t want to do.

If a bitch accepts your word as final, and is also willing to do whatever shit you want them to do at your command you’re making real progress in training a bitch.  3) Bitch betta have my money! This is something you absolutely need to drill into a bitches mind through all means necessary. When you’re playing Mr Nice Guy and talking about each other’s thoughts and feelings you need to tell a bitch that honestly, when someone makes you a lot of money, you feel a deeper connection towards them. it’s as though a bitch that you love and loves you is willing to go out there and no matter what, even on a slow day show you that she’s willing to do whatever it takes to make sure she has your money, that kind of stuff absolutely makes you love her more. When a bitch comes up short, you see it as though she didn’t love you enough to make you your money. I’m not talking about telling a bitch this when you’re mad. I’m talking about when you’re laying in bed with that pillow talk and a bitch first tells you she loves you and how she knows she’s in love with you, tell her this type of shit. It sounds ridiculous to almost anyone, but when someone is falling in love even shit that’s ridiculous sounds plausible or believable so it’s at these points you have to plant those seeds in her mind. You also need to be hard on your bitches, you can’t always be soft and sensitive and telling them how it hurts your feelings when they don’t bring you your money. You gotta be able to blow a gasket every now and then and let them know you’re not playing games. I never got angry to the point where I lost control, but I would definitely get angry enough to the point where they knew I was disgusted in them. I’d smack a bitch, let her know she’s burning up valuable patience and if she keeps coming up short I’m going to drop a bitch really quick. It’s important to know though, that when ever I would smack my bitches I wouldn’t do it out of anger. I wouldn’t lose control and start smacking her like crazy, when I smack a bitch it was because she deserved it and she needed it. Not because I became violent in my anger towards her. If you smack a bitch and then grab her by the face and tell her to look you in the eyes she knows she fucked up and will feel ashamed. She also knows she deserved to be smacked. If you punch a bitch or if you get drunk and then come home looking to kick some ass for no reason, you just become abusive and smacking a bitch is no longer about keeping your bitches in check, it’s about you being an abusive and negative individual.

Another thing I used to do all of the time with my bitches is give them certain things they need to do so that you’re always controlling their actions. If they’re watching TV it’s because they’ve earned it and you’ve allowed it, not because it’s their right to watch TV when ever they want. I would tell bitches when they weren’t out working and they were at home there were certain things that needed to be done at all times. I never let my bitches wear clothes inside the house, they always needed to be naked or wearing panties if it was that time of the month. I would also make all of my bitches cook for me. I would have a cleaning service so they needed to keep shit clean, but they would never have to clean the bathrooms or kitchens or do any of the heavy lifting, but if I came home and the bed wasn’t made or the living room was disorganized I wouldn’t let that shit slide. I made bitches cook for me because all women should have to cook for their man, bitches or not. If a woman has a job where she’s busy all of the time she might not be able to cook all of the time but there’s those special occasions when a woman feels like more of a woman if she’s able to cook for her man. I would also give them shit to do like every day I wanted a full body massage and so I’d let them know what days they needed to give me a massage. You can come up with whatever type of shit you can think of but the bottom line is that if everything is done, the house is clean, you’ve gotten your massage, they’ve made you your money, they don’t have any clothes on, then they can watch their TV show or whatever. Keeping your house in order like this is absolutely necessary because if you let bitches run wild and do whatever they want, when it comes time to show them you’re in charge they’ll fight back. If you’re in control at all times then when you flex that control over them they’re used to it. It becomes natural.

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  1. cblancher 12/04/12

    Pimpin, greetings big bra!!!!
    I’ve laid the new rules Down on an old bitch who has been running game on me for a long time, she fighting like a champ & mad at the world..
    It aint no fun when the rabbit got the gun!!!!!
    But she still hanging in there even after I announced the new game changers do I give her an inch hear and there to keep her close or do I just flat out gorilla pimp on her?

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/05/05

      Never give a bitch an inch. If you laid down the rules and she’s still around but isn’t cooperating 100% give her some time. I’d give her a month max but with ZERO SLACK. I would spend every moment I had explaining to her every rule and letting her argue it out and convincing the bitch that it’s for the best and it’s what needs to be. If a bitch on the same page as you after a month, kick her to the curb. Gorilla pimp = beating a bitch down and that won’t change your situation. It’s not like she needs to follow the new rules out of fear, that’s not a good situation to be in. You want her to follow your rules because she wants to be the best bitch possible for you. That’s why I said explain everything to her again and again and again. Just mentally exhaust her with conversation after conversation till she sees the light and wants to do things your way. Try every angle possible and wear the bitch down mentally. If you do it enough a month max and she’ll tap out and follow your rules.

  2. cblancher 12/05/22

    Pimpin
    Im establishing a connection & one of the other bitches is mad about how hard I’m going to make it happen saying that I’ve put one above the rest, how and what i Do to stop the jealousy?
    What can I say to make her Comfortable with other females?
    I’m wearing her down but she finds strength to come at me repeatedly…
    sorry to hit you with so Much at once but I gotta bring it to the best so here it is…. Thanks again big bra!!!!!!

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/05/24

      If you’re going hard on a new bitch and your old bitch is feeling jealous, you need to explain to the old bitch that a pimp ain’t a pimp with only one or two bitches. A pimp needs to continue pimping in order to be a pimp. Then you flip it back around on her and tell her, does she wanna be a bitch for some half pimp? Get her to take pride in how official of a pimp her pimp is. Tell her that when you’re pulling in a new bitch, it’s going to make the stable stronger and add to your stack, which is hands down the most important thing in life – making you stack as large as possible. So now this old bitch needs to not only be okay with it, but she needs to start finding ways she can help you bring in this new bitch, and other bitches.

      At the end of the day you’re framing it in the best way you can, and a lot of bitches will swallow that up but there’s some bitches that simply wont. The only thing you can do if a bitch won’t get her around the fact that you need to dedicate a large portion of your time to bringing in new bitches is to (a) get rid of the old bitch, because she obviously isn’t bottom bitch material or (b) involve her in the process of bringing in new bitches so she feels apart of it. The problem with option (b) is that when you turn a bitch out with another person in the picture, she’s mentally/emotionally attached to the both of you, instead of just you.

  3. cblancher 12/05/22

    Pimpin
    Do you have a List of punishments for bitches I’ve got the feet kissing part and ignoring them down. I would like to know some other tactics, pimp with the mind not with the fist!!!’

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/05/24

      Yes, I would have to sit and think for a minute. But I can definitely give you some more ideas:

      1) I would use punishments that you would give to children. For example, have them stand facing the wall then place a quarter between their nose and the wall. Make them stand there for as long as you think they deserve it. Minimum 30 minutes, but up to 3-4 hours.

      2) Practice orgasm control with your bitches. Tell them they have to ask you before they can orgasm. After they’re used to asking to orgasm, start delaying it. Tell them “not yet”. Then let them orgasm once they’re really hurting. Once they’re good and can hold it in no matter how much pleasure they’re getting, you can now punish them by telling them “No orgasms for 2 weeks”. You continue fucking her, you continue hitting that spot that makes her go crazy, but do not allow her to orgasm AT ALL. Make her play with her pussy for 30 minutes or even longer and tell her she can’t orgasm. Get creative with it.

      3) Humiliation. The best way to punish a bitch is by humiliating her as much as possible. Make her eat on the floor beside your spot at the table. Tell her to get on all fours and use her as a coffee table while you watch TV or play video games. While she’s your coffee table, if she says something, moves, coughs, etc tell her “Coffee tables don’t move”.

      I also extensively used spanking as a punishment. There’s something about a bitch getting a good spanking that puts them in their place. Record you spanking her. Start the video off by telling her why she’s getting spanked. Tell her how much it disappoints you, etc. Once you’ve scolded her for long enough, you tell her to get into position, however you prefer to spank. You don’t want to be angry while you’re doing it, so stay calm but let loose on her. If she’s a tough bitch go hard on her, bring her to tears. Once you’re done, you tell her to say “Thank you daddy” into the camera and make her promise she won’t do whatever she did to piss you off in the first place again. Once the camera is turned off, talk to her for a while and bring her back to feeling good. Hold her, comfort her etc. The idea is you’re recording her for further humiliation, you’re inflicting physical pain as a form of punishment, you further humiliate her by making her thank you for punishing her – but then you don’t leave her down there. You bring her back up to feeling good and wipe her tears away.

      A lot of the time the punishments I’d give were spur of the moment. It’s not like I’d have go-to punishments for them. Also, some bitches can control their orgasms perfectly without much suffering. Other bitches are dumb as a brick and don’t even mind standing holding a quarter against the wall with their nose for an hour. You have to tailor the punishments to the bitch, there’s no one size fits all.

  4. cblancher 12/05/25

    Pimpin
    I need you to explain the whole talking to a bitch thing to me I’m missing something I think. You need to tell the bitch what to do in such away as she does it, then bring her Emotionaly back to a happy of feel good point as to keep her going and running to meet the demands of her daddy. A simple formula would work for me as I do well w/ formula.
    I require help in this area, please shine a light and lead tha way big bra!!!!

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/05/25

      Can you be more specific? “The whole talking to a bitch thing” is very general. Give me an example with as much back story as you can and I’ll explain what I’d do in that situation and try and give you a formula.

  5. cblancher 12/05/25

    Pimpin
    I keep having a communications problem the bitchs keep complaining talking about I’m speaking to them poorly and it’s seems to be that my tone or attitude is making it hard for orders to be carried out..
    I am educated and have a full range of vocabulary enough to baffle & dazel a bitch for ever.

    I often find myself dumbing down my conversation to try and make it more paletable for the bitches but it’s not working, at first I took it as a bitch trying to gain an inch, but clearly that isn’t the case cause im hearing this more often and from multiple sources so I need to correct this expedishously as to increase productivity…

    FYI I do find myself speaking with alot of Emotion & passion trying to motivate but I clearly need directions, once a gain thanks big bra!!!!

  6. cblancher 12/05/25

    Pimpin
    I keep trying to go hard explaining the rules and why they need to be followed to the Letter, but I’m finding myself getting worn down not as much as the bitch is getting worn down but I’m having troubles keeping up the pace, it’s a whole lot of words and the bitch’s keep Changing subjects and twisting and turning when I finally shut one subjet down.
    The reason why I asked you for a formula cause I’m on these instructions but I’m still learning.

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/05/29

      If you’re going in circles, then don’t let the bitch steer the conversation. Let them voice all of their concerns, but do it in a way that you control it. Tell them “tell me what’s on your mind” then when they make one point, you stop the conversation and clearly label what the root of the problem is. Then you let them continue, when they bring up another problem stop the convo again and clearly label it. Eventually you;ll have a list of maybe 2-3 things, MAX 5. From there you can address each one individually. It can’t always happen in one conversation, but once you make strong points and you’re really motivating your bitch, get her to agree with you that it’s done and taken care of. So if you have 5 issues you need to pound through, by getting her to admit that you’ve solved one you can isolate that one and focus on the other four. Any time the convo comes back to something you’ve already solved, you remind them that it’s already solved and tell them let’s focus on one of the other 4.

      When talking to bitches you need to remember they totally lack common sense most of the time. For example, men talk about a problem with a solution at the end of the conversation. That’s what comes natural to us. We look at a problem, and we try to over come it. Bitches look at problems and rather than trying to solve it, they just rather talk about it. No end in sight. They feel better by talking about it and having their opinions expressed and getting stuff off their chest. Listen to her, make sure she’s said everything she wanted to say without your input. Everytime you interject to say something, it just gives her more fuel to keep on spewing the same retarded bullshit in another way. You can make a bitch feel like her thoughts are validated without ever agreeing or saying anything – simply by listening.

      The next thing you need to do is control the conversation. Once you know you have all of the points she has, boiled down into 2-3 or max 5 points, you take control of the conversation completely. I always used to drill into my bitch’s head that they had RULES to follow. The rules included stuff like “keeping an open mind and doing my best to adopt any perspective my daddy wants me to have” so that they’re obligated to try and see things your way. Once they have expressed their thoughts, try asking them rhetorical questions like…

      Do you want to make me happy? Good, this is what I need you to do for me to make me happy. You’re keeping an open mind right? Okay, well the reason I need other bitches in my stable is because… and you give them your reasons. Your reasons are stuff that motivates them where they feel good about your relationship.

      Don’t let the bitch go in circles, that’s their natural inclination. By identifying their problems and letting them speak their heart out and then you putting them into a list for them you’re clarifying what their problems are. Next, once you know all of her objections, you can break them down into a way that she can see them with the perspective you want them to have.

      I hope this helps pimp.

  7. cblancher 12/05/29

    Pimpin
    I got the rest need clarity or example for/
    give them your reasons. Your reasons are stuff that motivates them where they feel good about your relationship.
    Thanks again big bra!!!!

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/05/29

      Well what is your bitch giving you trouble about? You having other bitches? Her giving you 100% of the money? Give me the specific issues and I can tell you exactly what I told her. If I don’t know what the exact problem is, I can only give you general guidelines. The more info you give me, the better. For example, is she a new bitch? She’s mad cause you’re changing the rules, how long was the old way in place? Is the bitch on lock down or you think she might leave? etc give me the exact situation and as much background information on the general scenario and I’ll give you a lay up.

  8. Helmsdale 12/06/15

    Hi, I saw your post about how you introduced your second bitch. I’d like to know at what point you decide the time is right for a new bitch totally new to the game to move into your house as part of your team? When you do, is gradual best, or just start as you mean to go on and risk that she’ll walk? Should I insist she gets naked in the house right from the off? If not, when do I start it?

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/06/18

      This is really when intuition kicks in, there’s no one size fits all on how to turn a bitch out. A pimp has to be quick on his toes and know how to read the situation properly. With that being said, I would generally move them in as soon as I thought it was possible and as soon as they move in, all rules apply including being naked.

      A couple things to keep in mind:

      1) If you’ve got a good bottom bitch helping you out, it will make implementing the rules and welcoming new bitches in your home a lot easier. If your bottom bitch isn’t fully on the same page as you, you might run into problems between the two of them. Work on your bottom bitch a lot to make sure she’s on the same page.
      2) When you’ve got a new bitch on the go, she’s digging you,s he wants to be on your team, she wants to be around you more often and she knows that you have another bitch – don’t delay bringing her home. Sink or swim is the best way to go. Get a strong hold on her to the point where your word is law, and then throw her into the situation and keep strong control over her. If she finds it overwhelming and you give her a look like “dig deeper, try harder, don’t disappoint me” then she’ll be able to over come the situation and stick it out. However if she’s just on a ride, enjoys hanging out with you but doesn’t really think about what she’s getting herself into, then you throw her into the situation it could be a reality check for her where she gets the fuck out right away. As with most things, it comes down to how strong of a hold you have on them – and at all times your goal should be to have the strongest hold possible.

      There’s a lot more on this site where I talk about when a bitch is ready to be turned out, so make sure you read the whole site. I did my best to explain everything that is explainable and the rest, it just comes with your own intuition. I can’t spell it out because every bitch is different and every situation is different.

  9. CHUCK TAYLOR 12/10/17

    whats hannin pimpin! check game i been puttin down my ism for a couple years now! i play it by the rules & been blessed to really see a check! but i got a scenario im rebuilding my stable & i just met a white bitch which is already a working girl & she say has a friend that she is green to the game that she has working for her thats a black bitch! both girls are some real winners judging by looks! with both of them coming to me at the same time(in which i have only conversated with the white bitch i havent had the chance to speak with the black bitch yet), in this situation how do i properly put down my ism on both of them as individuals & still make it work in a timely fashion to secure both bitches! especially with them already being friends thats new to me… what would you do in this situation

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/10/18

      This is an extra fucked up situation to be in and I’m going to try and help you as best as I can but the bottom line is you need to figure this one out on your own. In the pimping game, as I’m sure you know, you always gotta be on your toes and never on your heels. This is a situation that will require a lot of maneuvering and attention to detail and you have to have your eyes wide open before you get into this situation.

      Now, the first and foremost is you need to make sure both of these bitches understand that you chose them, they didn’t chose you. I mentioned on this website somewhere that when you’re looking for a bitch to turn out, you let them chose you – don’t chase bitches – look for the bitches that want to be your bitch or are attracted to you. This is 100% true, but just as important, you never let them think they chose you. You always let them know that you chose them. If a bitch think she chose you, then they’re going to have the upper hand on a lot of issues and it’s going to fuck your game up.

      What you need to do is explain to the white bitch is that you chose her and she’s going to be on your team because you want her on your team. When she talks about her black bitch, you need to make sure she understands this black bitch is baggage not a bonus. She’s green to the game and the fact that she had already been working for your bitch, means she’s already been fucked up and you’re going to need to reprogram this bitch which is extra work you’re not even sure you want to take on.

      If you can flip the situation on your bitch bringing in other bitches into a situation where she feels like she’s bringing baggage onto your team, you’re stripping her of any privileged she may have felt entitled to and you’re also setting up your game for when you start pimping the black bitch.

      Now for the black bitch you’re going to have to play it extra smooth. You want to set this up in a way you break the tie she has with the white bitch and assert yourself in the middle of them. You’re going to need to explain to her why life with you is better than it was with the other bitch. You’re going to need to explain to her that she isn’t 100% down to be on your team, there’s no room for her. Last but not least you need to explain to her that she doesn’t get a free pass onto your team because she’s coming with the other bitch. You’re going to give her a shot, but if she doesn’t make you money, if she doesn’t follow your rules, if she doesn’t respect your game, then she’s out on her ass and if she ever tries to come between you and the white bitch, there’s going to be problems.

      Now with that being said you’re going to need to play it by ear. Obviously having two bitches off the bat is going to be tough because you’re going to have to train both of them at the same time. You don’t want to have them teaming up against you, you don’t want them arguing among themselves and causing problems and you want them to make you as much money as possible. So you’re really going to have to make sure you take control of the situation from the get go, set your rules, make sure neither of them feel they’re entitled to anything and keep a close eye on the dynamic between the three of you.

      You’re the daddy, but do not let the white bitch become mommy to the black bitch. At the absolute most she can be the black bitch’s big sister, but do not let her put the white bitch on the same level as you.

  10. CHUCK TAYLOR 12/10/20

    yeah mane thats what i been runnin a 1200 yard dash about! i knew i was goin have to separate the mindset of them hoes! but i got them hoes with me now cause i dont waste n time gettin bitches to hoein! so what im doin is like you say keep them hoes on the same level & try not to let them hoes spend to much time alone together! until i got that full grip then start splittin them hoes up, give em that personal time but off rip i dont wanna pin them against eachother or talk down about one to the other cause i might run the risk of them hoes talkin & discussing shit & start “THINKING” so im goin peep whichever one of them really catchin plays & gettin the most money then pin them against each other like that but thats whats goin take time but if they worth it imma run it!

    preciate the insight slick!!! ATLANTA,GA DA PIMPIN IS ALIVE!!!!

  11. Ms.dizzy 12/11/19

    Hi daddy (show of respect for u) i have been owned by a guy who followed ur guide like it was the damn bible…long story short ur bred a bitch….another nigga came around and he bitched out and let him take me….i was like what a bitch and on top of that he acted like he fell in love with me…ugh…i really think u need to step up ya game if u wanna train niggas to tame a bitch like me

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/12/24

      Lol thanks for the respect.

  12. Ms.dizzy 12/11/19

    Also i agree with you on making us bitches love our pimps but they need to make the girl believe she cant survive without him. Mine didnt and i left.

  13. punter 12/12/25

    I’m not in the business, not even a user, I’m just curious and want to know stuff, thus the username.

    I wonder – what’s in it for the girls if they really have to give 100% of the money? And does a new girl actually start on that arrangement, and somehow accepts it – or is she gradually trained to give everything? Is it always 100% or are other forms practiced too?

    • How To Be A Pimp 12/12/26

      Well a punter is a user of the services, no?

      If you want to know what’s in it for the bitches, read the entire site. I go into in detail about how a pimp turns out a bitch, what kind of bitches pimps look for, etc. All bitches start on that arrangement, there’s no graduality to pimping. When a pimp is turning out a bitch, she normally isn’t working for him right away. Once a pimp puts a bitch to work, it’s 100%. Anything less and he’s no longer a pimp, but rather a manager or an escort agency owner etc. I’m sure there’s some pimps out there who don’t take 100% but call themselves pimps, in my opinion they’re not.

  14. roughpimp 13/03/10

    i can’t get my bitch to perform kinky stuff for tricks…often clients are willing to pay extra for girl who licks ass or drinks piss,but my bitch refuses to do it…any recommendations how to get her to do it…thank you

    • How To Be A Pimp 13/03/16

      When you make the conversation about “will you do this” then a bitch has a choice to say no. When you make the conversation about “why you have to do this” then the conclusion is already drawn and you’re just discussing the reason she has to do it. If a bitch flat out refuses to do something I told her to do, then she’s gone. I don’t care if I’m telling her to drink piss out of a tricks dick or if she’s simply refusing to go get me a cold beer from the fridge. Either way, if a bitch looks me in the eye and says no, then she’s gone. Zero patience for that bullshit.

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