One of the most important parts about being a pimp is the pimp swagger. Pimp swagger is something you must have at all times. There are a lot of reasons for this but the main reason is in order for bitches to respect you, they have to know that you’re above them. A bitch will turn tricks for you if she’s in love with you even if you’re broke, but she will begin to resent you for it. She will think that you’re dragging her down and keeping her from her goals and dreams. If you’re pimp fresh at all times, your bitches will think that you’re elevating them to your level by being around you. This includes both your clothes, car and where you live. But it also includes your pimp confidence and mentality. If you’re wearing old clothes and your car is breaking down and you live in a shitty apartment, bitches are going to resent you for it.
The main thing that bitches will see when they look at you, is your clothes and how fresh you are. This is very important that you’re wearing clothes that are clean and fresh. Women in general want their man to look good. Most of the time when it’s a man’s birthday or Christmas comes around, their wife or girlfriend will buy them clothes. Not all of the time but it’s the most common thing. The reason being is that women want their man to look good, and most men neglect this. Women want their man to not only look good, but look good beside them. If you’ve got 100k stashed away but your sneakers have holes in them, bitches won’t respect you even if they see that money. They will look at you on a daily basis as someone who they’re ashamed to be with. So make no mistake, even if your game is tight and you’ve got your bitches in check, make sure your stay fresh and clean. This includes having fresh clothes, getting regular hair cuts, manicures and pedicures, everything to stay as fresh as possible. You want to look as good or better than your bitches at all times.
The next most important thing in terms of pimp swagger is your ride and your home. You don’t need a pink Cadillac in order to be a pimp, but a Rav4 won’t cut it either. If you don’t have the money, fake it till you got it. Leasing a base model Mercedes is better than buying a car cash for 5k. If you can’t get a lease and you’re on a tight budget, get a bitch who has good credit and lease it in her name. The same goes for your crib, it’s all good to say in the hood. If you’re BK no need to move to upper east side in order to be a pimp. But make sure the inside of your house has shit that bitches don’t have. Get a big screen TV, leather couch, nice coffee table, king size bed, xbox 360, playstation 3 and a movie collection. That’s all it really takes. you just have to have the kind of shit that someone who doesn’t have any cash wouldn’t have. If you can fill up a small one bedroom apartment with nice stuff bitches will see that and respect it. If you’ve got a blow up air mattress and no other furniture, again, they will continue to turn tricks for you but they will eventually resent you for it and leave you. Bitches want to be around nice things, they don’t necessarily need to be in nice neighborhoods or huge apartments, but just having nice stuff in a small apartment is enough for them to feel like you’ve got everything you want/need even if you’re dreaming of the 2 bedroom apartment on the upper east side.
Pimp confidence is another aspect about pimp swagger that is sometimes over looked. Pimp confidence is a lot different than other types of confidence. When I say pimp confidence I am not talking about your ability to go and talk to women and turn them out. All pimps have that otherwise they wouldn’t be pimps. When I say pimp confidence I am talking about the confidence that your bitches have in you due to your swagger. When you’re a 4 or 5 year old kid your father is the biggest, best and strongest man in the world. You look up to your father as though he’s super-human. It doesn’t matter if your father is actually a drunk or a loser, when you’re a kid you got these goggles on that make your father look like he’s the best. Bitches need to have that same kind of confidence in you, they look up to you and they don’t even notice the negative things about you but they make you super-human for the thing you do. It’s actually very easy to get to this point with a bitch and the main trick is simply having an answer for everything. When a bitch has questions, problems or concerns you always have an answer that is well thought out and makes sense to the bitch. If it doesn’t make sense to her right away, you need to take the time – ever time – to explain it to the bitch till she does understand.
A pimp’s mentality also has a lot to do with pimp swagger. A pimp believes he should not have to lift a finger to make money and he thinks that every one around him owes him money. A pimp’s mentality is about having a sense of entitlement in life. You know you’re not some average Joe and you know that you’re smarter than most people around you and so they are in a sense leeching off of you. A pimp never sees himself as leeching off of his bitches, his bitches are leeching off of him. A pimp will never go outside of the pimp mentality and start looking at or discussing topics from another perspective. A pimp will always spend every moment he’s awake to furthering his cause of becoming a bigger better pimp. Everything that you learn as a pimp is applied to your pimping. You don’t have a separate life from your pimping life. If you are reading a book about Ghandi and you’re inspired by it, it’s a lesson learned on how to inspire your bitches. Not a lesson learned on how to bring conflict to peace. If you’re playing video games while your bitch is cleaning your house, you’re relaxing cause you’ve had a hard day and that bitch is paying her rent and making her pimp happy. You’re not slacking off while she’s busting her ass. If you don’t have a strong sense of your pimp mentality at all times, your bitches will find you at moments when you’re weak and off your game and start a conversation with you that will fuck your game up. Always stay within your pimp mentality so you don’t get caught slipping.
If you can keep your pimp swagger turned on at all times then you’re ahead of the game. Bitches won’t be able to catch you when you’re off your game because you’re always on. Bitches will find that everything you tell them is perfect and solidified, there are no chinks in your armor. In order to be a pimp with multiple bitches you need to be this solid and hard working. If not you’re going to end up with constant problems and bitches causing trouble all the time. You’ll end up choking a bitch every other day and then you’re locked up on some trumped up domestic assault charges.